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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=4097</guid> <description><![CDATA[That's my plan for 2011, but it's not what you might think. The saying taped to my mirror is "Life to you is a dashing and bold adventure". While I certainly believe that in a big-picture way, it's one thing to think this way while you're off viewing wildlife in the rainforest... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2011/01/03/year-of-living-adventurously/">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That's my plan for 2011, but it's not what you might think. The fortune cookie saying taped to my mirror is</p><blockquote><p>Life to you is a dashing and bold adventure".</p></blockquote><p>While I certainly believe that in a big-picture way, there's a reason I have it on my mirror.</p><p>It's one thing to think this way while you're off viewing wildlife in the rainforest, or exploring ancient Greek ruins.  But what about the rest of life? What about the dull days spent toiling away at the office, or even (heaven forbid!) doing the accounting?  What about the difficult days, when disappointments arise, problems loom large, and tears well up?  Are those days part of the adventure, too?</p><div
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class="wp-caption-text">This looks like a fun adventure!</p></div><blockquote><p><strong>Adventure</strong><br
/> "1. A risky undertaking of unknown outcome.  2. An exciting or unexpected event or course of events."  ~ Collins English Dictionary</p></blockquote><p><strong>Adventure and the dull days</strong></p><p>Adventures don't have to be dangerous, physically challenging, or geographically distant.  You don't have to follow in the footsteps of Indiana Jones, searching for long-lost treasure, while evading jungle natives and outwitting German spies.</p><div
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class="wp-caption-text">Hmm, temple of doom....</p></div><p>In terms of travel, I've always found that the worst experiences at the time can make the best stories later. If you're going to laugh a year from now about the time you spent 2 days sleeping at the airport, or your bus broke down in the middle of nowhere, why not take it in stride, and laugh about it right away?</p><p>But it's a big step from there to viewing challenges and hardships in our "normal life" as part of the adventure. When you're in the middle of the snake pit, it's scary, and it's not where you want to be.  It's hard to step back from there to see the larger view, where this is one of the ups and downs that make life exciting. (I'm not speaking of real tragedies here, but the many types of obstacles we have to overcome.)</p><p>It's difficult to get that perspective, even though we know that in the long run, the hard times are just part of life.  They build ability and confidence, as you know that you've made it  through another trial.  The next time you're in trouble, you can think  "I can do this - it's nothing compared to the snake pit." They make the good times that much sweeter, as you suddenly appreciate any day without snakes. And sometimes they make great stories later, too!</p><blockquote><p>Attitude is the only difference between an ordeal and an adventure."  ~  Larry Hazan</p></blockquote><p>So this year, my goal is to keep that adventurous outlook, regardless of what's happening.  I intend to have adventures afield, adventures close to home, and even adventures on days when I have to do accounting. <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> And when I hit a difficult patch, I'll do my best to picture it as a yawning chasm or a pool of quicksand - all just part of the adventure!</p><p><strong>What do you think?</strong> Do you see life as an adventure, or would you like to?  There's nothing required except an adventurous spirit.  I'll keep you posted on how it goes - I foresee one awesome, rocking year ahead!</p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<span
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/> For 2011, my resolution is to explore the concept of adventure.  I'm not spending the year trekking unexplored mountain passes, but wherever I am, and whatever I'm doing, I'll be looking for the adventure in it.  Can every day be adventurous, even the dull and difficult ones?  That's what I aim to find out, in the Year of Living Adventurously!</span> <img
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=3952</guid> <description><![CDATA[I'm not sure why, but I just don't greet birthdays these days with the same unmixed enthusiasm I used to.  Wait - back up... It's not good to start a blog post with a lie, is it?  I DO know why birthdays evoke such a mix of emotions. First off, phrases like... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2010/11/23/wisdom-from-facebook-birthday/">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I'm not sure why, but I just don't greet birthdays these days with the same unmixed enthusiasm I used to.</p><p>Wait - back up...  It's not good to start a blog post with a lie, is it? <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p><strong>I DO know why</strong> birthdays evoke such a mix of emotions.  First off, phrases like "<em>getting older</em>" - well, let's just say I live in a world of denial where this doesn't exist.  Then there's the annual question - "<em>another year, and what have I accomplished?</em>"  No matter what I've done, it's never as much as I could have or should have.  And finally, there's the loss of something irreplaceable - one year of a finite life is gone forever.</p><p>On the plus side, I'm always happy for any reason to celebrate!!  It's just that this particular party comes with a bunch of baggage.</p><div
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class="wp-caption-text">Birthday wishes and wisdom</p></div><div
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class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" width="13" height="9" /> <em>May you blow out all the candles and may all your dreams and wishes come true!</em> - To me, this is a reminder to never let your dreams fade away.  They'll only come true if you keep them bright, refer to them often, and remember them when the candles are in front of you.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" width="13" height="9" /> <em>Once more around the sun. Well done! Hope today is awesome and sets the minimum bar for every day going forward.</em> - Do I have a bar for days going forward, or do I just let day after day pass on by?  If I want more awesome days, it's up to me to make it happen!</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" width="13" height="9" /> <em>Have a great birthday, oh all-powerful wench!</em> - What a great reminder that we're not just helpless victims.  We really are powerful, and we create our own reality!</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" width="13" height="9" /> <em>How time flies....seems like it was just last year you had one of these. If you were here I would have let you celebrate by shoveling snow!!</em> - Now this is a reminder to be grateful for things we don't have, as well as those we do.  Not shoveling snow is now on my gratitude list!</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" width="13" height="9" /> <em>You worked hard all year long to get here, so go out and make some great memories</em>. - It's true - we do work hard all year to get to wherever we are.  This goes with the "powerful" part above - we create our own realities.  Everything I've done so far has gotten me to this point.  And if this point next year is going to be different (with a bunch more happy memories along the way), who's going to make it happen?</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" width="13" height="9" /> <em>Dance, laugh, mainly pamper yourself. Cheers!</em> -  Why wait for a birthday?  We could be nice to ourselves every day.  I don't mean daily facials (though that would be nice!) - but why not dance more, laugh often, and do a little pampering frequently?  How hard would that be, and wouldn't life be happier for it?</p><p>Enough philosophizing for now...  I've got some dancing to do!  <img
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=287</guid> <description><![CDATA["Don't wish it was easier; wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems; wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenges; wish for more wisdom." ~ Jim Rohn . . . When times are tough, it's natural to wish they were easier.  When you're sending out countless resumes, dealing with... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2010/04/05/dont-wish-easier/">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monday quote:</p><blockquote><p>Don't wish it was easier; wish you were better.  Don't wish for less problems; wish for more skills.  Don't wish for less challenges; wish for more wisdom."</p><p>~ <a
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class="wp-caption-text">What will you wish for?</p></div><p>When times are tough, it's natural to wish they were easier.  Whether you're sending out countless resumes, dealing with a problematic relationship, facing business challenges, or struggling to pay the bills, it's easy to just wish those problems would go away, right?  Problems be gone!</p><p>Those wishes are natural.  But useful?  Not so much! <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>On the other hand, if you flip it around, and wish you were better, stronger, and more capable - that gives you something you can work with.  You can actually develop your skills, educate your mind, and build your strength.  Improving yourself in this way can help you get through the current set of problems, and also improve your ability to deal with other things after that.</p><p>Here are a few positive outcomes we can gain from our challenges:</p><div
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src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" /> <strong>Expand knowledge and learn practical skills</strong>. A friend of mine was laid off with hundreds of other high-tech professionals, when her company decided to outsource their IT.  She's using this time to take an intensive series of courses to get certified in a specific niche skill set.  It's hard to dedicate the time to this when you're working full time, so this is an ideal opportunity in that respect.  It also puts her in a stronger position in the job hunt, and is likely to provide long-term career benefits.</p><p><img
src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" /> <strong>Develop new perspectives, lateral thinking, and creative solutions</strong>. When our standard approach isn't working, it forces us to search for alternatives.  This can lead to new perspectives and imaginative approaches we would never have thought of otherwise. An example I love is from <a
title="TED talks - Rory Sutherland" href="http://blog.ted.com/2009/10/life_lessons_fr.php" target="_blank">Rory Sutherland's presentation at TED</a>.  A group of engineers were given the task of improving the rail service between London and Paris. Their solution involved replacing all the tracks and shortening the trip by 40 minutes, for a cost of $6 billion. As Rory says, what an unimaginative solution!  For less than that cost, you could hire the world's top male and female supermodels to walk slowly through the train, serving everyone free champagne for the duration of the journey.  Happy customers, who wish their ride would last longer. <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p><img
src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" /> <strong>Continual growth</strong>. Challenges force us to  grow and change, while a lack of challenges doesn't. If everything is peachy keen, we can get lazy, assuming that things will continue to run along fine the way they are.  How much  progress would we make  in our lives if we never had  problems?  How  much would we learn if  everything we tried worked  perfectly the first  time?</p><p><img
src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" /> <strong>Intangibles</strong>. Dealing with problems can teach us resiliency, flexibility, adaptability,  self-reliance, and equanimity. The normal ways of dealing with things may not work any more, and trying to rigidly stick to the way we've always done things is not going to get us where we need to go. When you have to adapt, you do.</p><p><img
src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-orange.gif" alt="" /> <strong>Confidence</strong>. It may seem odd that problems breed confidence, but it can work that way. Overcoming challenges gives us confidence that we will be able to  overcome other challenges in the future.  The next time a similar situation occurs, we see it from a different perspective - "I've dealt with things like this before".  We know that we will get through this, we will survive, we will  grow and learn from it, and we will be be happier and wiser in the future.</p><p>Viewed like this, we can be grateful for the problems that come our way.  Or if not really grateful, at least we can recognize the silver lining. We can use these challenges to develop our own strengths and abilities.  We can gain a long-term benefit from a short-term problem.</p><p><strong>So don't wish for less challenges; wish for more wisdom. </strong></p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<span
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/> I'm currently working on our high-level business strategy for Adventurous Wench, and as I'm sure everyone knows, our current economic environment has plenty of challenges!  And thank goodness for that!  <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span><br
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=1660</guid> <description><![CDATA["All that is necessary to break the spell of inertia and frustration is this: Act as if it were impossible to fail. That is the talisman, the formula, the command of right-about-face which turns us from failure towards success." ~ Dorothea Brande ___ If only it were so easy, right? If all we had to do was act... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2010/03/13/break-spell-frustration/" rel="nofollow">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>All that is necessary to break the spell of inertia and frustration is this: Act as if it were impossible to fail. That is the talisman, the formula, the command of right-about-face which turns us from failure towards success."<br
/> ~ <a
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/> </a></p></blockquote><div
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class="wp-caption-text">Failure is impossible!</p></div><p>.</p><div
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src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
/> <span
class="tripnote">People often ask me how I started <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/whyus.htm">Adventurous Wench</a>, or how I got to be so lucky to have a job that lets me travel all over, meeting people and doing cool things.  It all starts with an idea, and then you have to turn the idea into reality.  There's a definite leap of faith -- that critical period at the beginning, where you have to start "acting as if".</span><br
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=1656</guid> <description><![CDATA["You will never 'find' time for anything. If you want time, you must make it."  ~ Charles Bruxton . . . I took a Harv Eker seminar a few years ago, and it was excellent.  One of the concepts that really struck a chord with me is that we each have our own favorite excuses we use all the time... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2009/03/16/youll-never-find-time/" rel="nofollow">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monday quote:</p><blockquote><p>You will never 'find' time for anything.  If you want time, you must make it."<br
/> ~  Charles Bruxton</p></blockquote><div
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class="size-medium wp-image-2125" title="oth-fridge" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/oth-fridge-263x300.jpg" alt="Pickles and wine, yes.  Time, afraid not!" width="263" height="300" /></a><p
class="wp-caption-text">Pickles and wine - yes.   Time - no luck.</p></div><div
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class="alignnone" title="Smiley" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/clips/smileywink.gif" alt="" width="15" height="15" /> It's highly versatile, and can be applied to almost anything.  It involves a universal concept that everyone can relate to.  I've got a great story to go with it, so it's very convincing (to myself and others)!</p><div
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class="wp-caption-text">Lost time is never found again</p></div><p>But as the quote says, we will NEVER find time for anything!  That means using this as a universal excuse is a huge limitation.  Once you get into the habit of the "time excuse", it's so easy to keep ruling things out, instead of finding a way to get them done.</p><p>Bruxton is right.  Instead of finding time, we have to make time, and that's all a matter of priorities and efficiencies.  Removing useless time suckers, delegating what we can, and deciding what the big things are that we are going to make time for, no matter what.</p><p>One thing that drove this home was discovering Obama's regular exercise schedule.  If he finds time to work out every day, how on earth can I say I don't have time to?  It sounds pretty lame in that context, doesn't it?</p><p>So now I can't say that.  The standard excuse just doesn't work like it used to, and I've got to acknowledge the real truth.  Either I do it, or I choose not to.  Either I make the time for it, or I don't.  It's not up to the giant time god, it's up to me!</p><p>Do you have a standard excuse that you use regularly?  Is it serving you, or limiting you?  Is there a better way of looking at things?</p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
/> <span
class="tripnote">There are so many things in life that we tend to put off -- just "don't have the time now".  Maybe next week / month / year / decade.  Are there things you've been putting off way too long?  Remember -- you'll never find the time, you have to make it.</span><br
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=1650</guid> <description><![CDATA["The future is not a result of choices among alternative paths offered by the present, but a place that is created - created first in the mind and will, created next in activity.  The future is not some place we are going to, but one we are creating.  The paths are not to be found, but made...  <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2009/02/16/future-is-created/" rel="nofollow">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monday quote:</p><blockquote><p>The future is not a result of choices among alternative paths offered by the present, but a place that is created - created first in the mind and will, created next in activity.  The future is not some place we are going to, but one we are creating.  The paths are not to be found, but made, and the activity of making them, changes both the maker and the destination."<br
/> ~  Deborah James</p></blockquote><div
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/> This is a powerful viewpoint.</p><p>Understanding that we are creating our own future - moment by moment, step by step, with everything that we do, means that we have power over that future. We have the power to mold it and shape it.   How it turns out will be a result of our own thoughts and actions.  How powerful is that?  <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><div
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class="size-medium wp-image-1676" title="pottery-wheel" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/pottery-wheel-300x200.jpg" alt="What are you creating?" width="300" height="200" /></a><p
class="wp-caption-text">What are you creating?</p></div><p>.<br
/> If you've got a lump of clay, what will you make with it?  A fruit bowl? Sculpture?  Ashtray?  The possibilities are endless, just as they are with creating our own lives.  Whatever you decide, you are creating something - first in the mind, then in reality.  Even if your decision is to leave the lump of clay sitting there untouched until it dries and cracks -- well, that's creating something too.</p><p>Of course there are always things that happen that are outside our control, both good and bad.  Whether it's a chance encounter, or a car accident, or a company layoff, or winning the lottery - these things come into our lives, and we have to determine what to do with them.  We can't control the fact that they happened.  But we can control our response - how we view them, and what we choose to do with them.  It's hard to see the opportunity, or silver lining, in everything that happens in our lives, though some people are remarkably adept at it.</p><div
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class="size-full wp-image-1682" title="okra" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/okra.jpg" alt="The ingredients await" width="200" height="189" /><p
class="wp-caption-text">The ingredients await</p></div><p>Imagine a chef competition.  You're given certain ingredients, and tools, and constraints, and then it's up to you to decide what you're going to make with it.  Maybe you'd rather have lobster, but you got okra.  Are you going to make Fried okra? Pickled okra? Bayou gumbo?  How about Spicy african-style okra?   Even with okra, you've got endless options. <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>You start with the situation and assets you've got.  Then apply imagination to see the possibilities, then some thought to figure out the details, then the actions to make the final product.  It all applies in life just as it does in cooking.</p><p>So think about your own life -- right now, where you are, doing what you're doing.  This is the "future" you created in the past, with all the materials you've been given so far.  Is it what you thought you were building?  What you wanted to make?</p><p>Now where do you want to go from here?</p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
/> <span
class="tripnote">One thing I've been creating recently is our new <a
title="Women's travel store" href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/travel/" target="_self">Women's Travel Store</a>.  People always ask us about what they should take on their trips.  Now we're going to make it easier than ever to get just the right travel clothing and travel accessories that you need.</span><br
/> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
/> <span
class="tripnote">The author received no contribution from the Okra Marketing Board, and this post is not an endorsement for any particular okra recipe, especially pickled okra. <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span><br
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=277</guid> <description><![CDATA["The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything."  ~ Theodore Roosevelt  ___  So true!  You can't be free from mistakes if you ever attempt anything new or express an original thought.  And the more new things you try, the more mistakes you're bound to make... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2009/01/17/man-who-never-makes-mistakes/" rel="nofollow">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Inspirational quote:</p><blockquote><p>The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything."<br
/> ~ <a
rel="nofollow" type="amzn">Theodore Roosevelt</a></p></blockquote><p>So true!  You can't be free from mistakes if you ever attempt anything new or express an original thought.  And the more new things you try, the more mistakes you're bound to make.  It goes with the territory.<br
/> .</p><div
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class="wp-caption-text">Mistakes, mistakes, mistakes...</p></div><p>.</p><div
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class="tripnote">(Notice that I left the above sentences ending with "etc." How vague, lazy and imprecise.  Progress!  Yes, I'm now showing off at being imperfect.)</span> <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>All this perfectionist striving means you feel good about the end product, at least if you dedicated enough time to get to that point.  But that's the rub.  It takes a long time to go through that process.  That's time that could be better spent addressing BIG items elsewhere. You're <strong>trading time on the big important issues for time moving that button</strong>.</p><p><strong>Why?</strong> Two reasons come to mind.</p><p>. . . (a) The idea that anything short of perfect is not good enough.</p><p>. . . (b) Little details are a lot easier!  Sure, I could spend hours tweaking that photo, to get the size, colors and frame just right, but it's a task that I know I can handle.   On the other hand, "revise business plan to maximize success in a recession" -- well, that's a lot more uncertain.</p><p>A few years ago, a friend told me that perfectionism was a problem to be overcome.  This caught me off guard, since I'd always thought that doing the best possible job on everything was a good thing!</p><p>Now I can clearly see the problem.  On the other hand, I lose respect for people or businesses who do things in a sloppy way, and I know I'm not the only one.  What's the answer?</p><p>Is it possible to  have perfectionism in moderation?  Or is that just an oxymoron?</p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
/> <span
class="tripnote">I've been away from posting for some time (sorry!) due to having too many projects going on.  Of course, I don't want to share any of them until they're finally perfect, but since I am making progress on this front, you can expect to see some mistakes soon! <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </span><br
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=294</guid> <description><![CDATA["Joy is what happens when we allow ourselves to recognize how good things really are." ~ Marianne Williamson ___ And how often do we do that?  Stop worrying about the future, and think about how good things really are, right now?  I'm betting that for most of us, it's not too often... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2008/12/24/joy-is-what-happens/" rel="nofollow">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today's quote:</p><blockquote><p>Joy is what happens when we allow ourselves to recognize how good things really are."<br
/> ~ <a
rel="nofollow" type="amzn">Marianne Williamson</a></p></blockquote><div
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class="wp-caption-text">It&#39;s a wonderful life</p></div><p>And how often do we do that?  Stop worrying about the future, and think about how good things really are, right now?  Stop focusing on our problems and what we don't have, and think about the wonderful things we do have?  I'm betting that for most of us, it's not too often.</p><p>We spend a lot of our lives working at one thing or another -- job, school, cooking, child care, cleaning up after Christmas diner, etc.  And working by its nature is usually forward-focused.  You spend your time working because of something you want to happen in the future, not because it's so inherently enjoyable right this minute.</p><div
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src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>As we wind down the work day today, it's time to stop the rushing and bustling and running around.  Stop the worrying for a bit, and reflect on just how good things really are.  That's when the joy happens.</p><p>Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everybody!</p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=295</guid> <description><![CDATA["Don't be fooled by the calendar.  There are only as many days in the year as you make use of.  One man gets only a week's value out of a year, while another man gets a full year's value out of a week."  ~  Charles Richard . . .  Uh oh. Another week ending, and I haven't even finished... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2008/12/11/dont-be-fooled-by-calendar/" rel="nofollow">Read article...</a> ]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quote for the day:</p><blockquote><p>Don't be fooled by the calendar.  There are only as many days in the year as you make use of.  One man gets only a week's value out of a year, while another man gets a full year's value out of a week."<br
/> ~  Charles Richard</p></blockquote><p>.<br
/> <img
class="alignright size-medium wp-image-432" title="Calendar with dates" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/oth-calendar-dates.gif" alt="" width="176" height="162" />Uh oh.  Another week is nearing an end, and I haven't gotten nearly as many things done as I hoped.  The lists keep multiplying and growing longer.  In fact, I haven't even finished the task of adding all my new items to the to-do lists!</p><p>That's a sorry state of affairs that reflects the problem with my GTD system.  I'm great at capturing ideas and to-do's and getting them into the In Box.  And there they pile up into a daunting stack.  Anybody else have this problem with Getting Things Done?</p><div
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title="What is GTD" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.davidco.com/what_is_gtd.php" target="_blank">What is GTD</a>, "<em>Implementing GTD alleviates the feeling of overwhelm, instills confidence, and releases a flood of creative energy.</em>"  I can tell I'm not doing this right.  Flood of creative energy - check.  Feeling of overwhelm alleviated?  Nope!</p><p>On the creative energy front, I have zillions of ideas.  Every day, as I read, listen, watch, and talk, I get more and more ideas.  "Hey, that's cool - we could do something like that..."  Wonderful!  Capture that idea, and get it into the In Box, and from there into the rest of the system.  I've got thousands of ideas documented now, available for review whenever I want.  It's overwhelming though to know that out of those thousands of ideas, I'll only be able to implement a small number.   The rest will sit there in my system until they just evaporate -- ideas that came out of nowhere, and returned to nowhere.  Some ideas turn into reality, some are passed on to others.   The rest just vanish.</p><p>On a bigger scale, the entire year is nearing an end.  Yikes!  How can it be nearly over already?  We do <a
title="extra second" rel="nofollow" href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/livescience/20081208/sc_livescience/2008willbejustasecondlonger" target="_blank">get an extra second this year</a>, but I could use a few more months, instead. <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>However, as the quotation reminds us, it's all in how well you use your time.  If I spend this evening reading the latest economic news (with appropriate wailing and gnashing of teeth), then not a lot gets done!  It really doesn't contribute anything - either to helping the business, helping my well-being, or helping anyone else.  It's unproductive and depressing, yet remarkably compelling.  Right now, we're watching history unfold around us.  Of course, I suppose that's true all the time, but it's a lot more dramatic history some days than others!</p><p>OK, enough rambling philosophy for one day.  I'd love to get a year's value out of the next week.  Or how about a week's worth out of the rest of the night? <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
/> <span
class="tripnote">On a totally different topic, we just announced a special deal on our <a
title="Costa Rica wildlife tour" href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/trip-cr.htm" target="_self">Costa Rica wildlife tour</a>.  Book your trip by Jan 15, and get a free hotel night in Costa Rica the night before the trip!</span><br
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/?p=289</guid> <description><![CDATA["Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has many - not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some." ~ Charles Dickens ___ Many people in this country may be reflecting on their misfortunes.  It can be hard not to if you watch the news, and its daily doom and gloom.... <a
href="http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/2008/11/26/reflect-upon-present-blessings/" rel="nofollow">Read article...</a>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanksgiving quote:</p><blockquote><p>Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has many - not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some."<br
/> ~ <a
rel="nofollow" type="amzn">Charles Dickens</a></p></blockquote><p><span
class="tripnote">I'm pretty sure the same thing applies to women, too!</span> <img
src='http://www.adventurouswench.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br
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class="wp-caption-text">Thanksgiving Day, 1867</p></div><p>.</p><div
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class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful for my family.  I'll be seeing some of them tomorrow for Thanksgiving (which will be wonderful), and I'll be thinking about the others who aren't there in person.  Nobody could ask for a better family.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful that I live in a country where I have freedom and rights, and where I can pursue my own dreams and career.  There are many places in the world where this would not be possible.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful that I have good health, and that I'm getting into a morning exercise routine that's making me stronger every day.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful that I live in a comfortable and safe home.  One I can feel good about coming home to.  One where I have everything that I need.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful for all our customers - past, present and future - who let us share some remarkable places and experiences with them.  You're who it's all about!</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful for the wonderful people I work with  - both here, and in far-flung parts of the world.  It's not like I can do this all by myself.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful for the many friends I have, scattered near and far.  Even when we don't see each other often, the bonds are still there.  And thank goodness for e-mail that lets us stay in touch easier, too.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful that I have a life that lets me meet many people, experience many things, travel many places, and have many adventures.  It's very exciting!</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful that I have this technology - this very computer that I'm typing on, and the blogging platform that lets me communicate with people no matter where they are.  I can't imagine running this business without our modern technology.</p><p><img
class="alignnone" title="arrow" src="http://www.adventurouswench.com/images/site/arrow-menu.gif" alt="" width="18" height="8" /> I'm thankful in advance for that marvelous feast that I know we'll have tomorrow!  Mmmm...  I suppose I should fast today in preparation, but instead I'm getting hungry just thinking of it.  <img
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class="bigredbold">Happy Thanksgiving everybody!</span></p><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br
/> <span
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